We are surrounded by INEVITABLES in life ....here are few that's coming to my mind , Death, Failed first love, Kids growing up, pet dog dying, best friend getting married ..and to include it all.. NOTHING BEING PERMANENT... so being understanding matured adults we all know these facts of life ... do we know them cause its happened to us or did we always know it and lived in denial ....
hmmmm , so wats wrong with living in denial !! We keep hearing "Stop resisting and accept it ." well acceptance does help ... but you need to know what is it that you are accepting ....
We all know, it all ends with death .. and loosing a loved one is painful ... so what am I accepting here .. !! I am not accepting that since death is inevitable I can not hurt if I loose some one , rather i am accepting that death is inevitable and since I am human I am going to hurt .. I am accepting the pain....
First love ... well mostly it never works .. but we all wish for it .. and we all say " for me it will work" ... if you dont have that hope , that faith , well then you will never love ... you cant hold back love cause you are scared of beig hurt .. accept the hurt .. go through the pain of parting..
Kids growing up and best friends getting married .. well you always knew that would happen ... but you just dont want to share them with anyone else.. so do you accept it and not miss them .. no .. if you dont miss them you never loved them ... but what u do accept is that when you let go of them , it is going to to hurt and the pain will be unbearable .. accept .. that it is ok to feel the pain.. the more it pains the more you love and value ...
Make friends with pain .. dont resist it ... pain is inevitable ....accept it...
