Mind's need to rationalise !!

Someone once told me " Never underestimate the power of mind to complicate things" .

When you start thinking about it, you realize how true it is ... we have found a way to explain everything .. which we call the science .. The science behind every change of state ..

How can 2 people think about each other at the same time ... ( In know: we call it love, but it happens otherwise too) , How can we love and hate someone at the same time ... how can you vibe with someone so well , but still at times want to stay away from that person .... why do people in love need to give space to each other , i thought love is togetherness...
" I follow my head " ..." I follow my heart " ... "my head and my heart is always at conflict" .... isnt that how we try to explain things like these...

hmmm ... well , you see , we are always trying to explain or rationalise....

Mind - as an entity , is would say , is very pretty egoistic ... our mind will never give up till we have explained or found a reason behind things ..... It doesnt understand that there are thing in this universe which need not be explained or understood... its just the way it is ....

And when our mind , tries to understand , we come to conclusions , and to us that becomes the only justifiable reason and thats when we start seeing simple things in a complicated way .... its like a prism... when you see through it the white light breaks into a number of colorful rays .... similarly when we look at simple things of life through the glass of reason , and come to a complex conclusion it adds color to our life ...

Picture 2 men taking a walk .... that does sound boring , now ..picture 2 men taking a walk and let your imagination fly ... let your mind ask why are these 2 men walking together .... getting few answers ? coming to a conclusion ? ... now , thats a lil bit more interesting !!!!

what I am trying to say here , is that , some things are just meant to be ,... and we have to experience it ... our purpose is to just experience these things without trying to rationalise ... and mostly we are supposed to experience pain and still try to find happiness... every time you feel pain try to be happy ...